Checking on babies in the middle of the night, 20 years later

This morning I was responding to a late-night note from an unschooling dad, and wrote some things I thought sounded quite bloggish, so I lifted these parts, knowing I had photos to go with them. (No photo for the first paragraph, which is best for us all.)

I'm up too early because my husband fell asleep two hours early, which means his "I don't need an alarm clock" self was up in the bathroom two hours earlier than usual, and I woke up too awake to go back to sleep. Nice to have the options, and a quiet house.

Holly has joined a music group (a capella) and they're having a car wash this morning. On short notice she's supposed to lean toward 1940's pinup, rather than 2011 girls. She has the lipstick, shorts and a polka-dotted scarf. I helped her with cardboard signs and a bucket of old towels. She's asleep.

Marty and his girlfriend were out at an armored-combat practice. They're asleep. I like this kind of very-busy, very peaceful life with young adult offspring.

Kirby is at work in Austin for another three hours, inspiring his overnight team at Blizzard. I think I'll lift some of this to my blog, because I have a couple of photos I could match to it.
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Holly and I will get to see Kirby at the Good Vibrations Unschooling Conference in San Diego September 8 and thereabout, and we just got to see him for his birthday the end of July!

I have a warm feeling of contentment knowing that they're all grown enough to take care of themselves if I weren't around, and yet glad for me to know where they are.

This amused me (about truth's relationship to me)

On Facebook there's been a fair amount of jackoff nonsense on a couple of unschooling discussion pages, with people stirring up 100+ response topics and then deleting all or some of the discussion. So I'm bringing this here before it goes down someone's drain. The guy I quote and was responding to already pulled all of his stuff after being a butt to many nice unschoolers who were voluntarily offering years of experience.

a guy wrote: ‎-=@Sandra. Just because you say it does not make it true. -=-

Sandra Dodd: You're right. If something is true, it isn't true *just* because I say it.

A dusty slice of the west

Today Marty and I drove out of town specifically for the purpose of my taking some pictures for possible use in Just Add Light and Stir. Some of them are no good, and there were two dust devils (miniature whirlwinds) that I didn't even try to photograph. But because I was snap-snappety-snap-snap while I was in the UK, I thought I would try to take pictures of things I might have taken pictures of if I was a tourist here. I don't think it works quite the same way, but some of these are fun, and as a group they might be interesting for people who don't live in desert places.

There's a road I hadn't seen, off of Coors Road, and I took a photo for Ravi, Hema, and anyone else who might appreciate it:



That's Marty sitting in the jeep in the shade waiting for me to cross the road again.

There were some little tumbleweeds in the median there. They don't have time to get very big before it's too cold for them. So they will end up stunted and ratty like the one below that (leftover from last year, and miles from there). That's okay. Really, it's better than fat, healthy tumbleweeds that plant a thousand babies.




None of those were any good for Just Add Light. And pretty much there was PLENTY of light, and 95 degrees or so. Marty's jeep has excellent air conditioning.

There's one place where a car had been doing donuts, and some close-ups of junk, but the worst ugly thing is something Georgia O'Keefe would NOT have wanted to paint, that would NOT be put into a western movie. It's a cow skeleton, some of one, but cut with a bandsaw, or something, down the spine, so maybe was in a butcher's shop, and then... I don't know. It's by the side of old Rt. 66 now, with yucky tendons and all. So that's nasty. Welcome to the west on a normal day. Maybe it was the by-product of a beef ribs bar-be-cue. DOH! Sorry, Hema and Ravi. Namaste.

Maybe some of the photos will show up in Just Add Light and Stir sometime. Or not. :-)

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Chris in Iowa send me a note, and because it has a photo, I'm just going to add it in here (with her permission):

Sandra,

Your blogpost with photos of the desert reminded me of something Holly said when she was visiting us two summers ago. We had picked her up from the airport and we were driving home. We exited our freeway and in Iowa we have pretty long exit ramps. As we approached the end of the exit ramp, on the right side of the road was a grassy corner with trees. Holly looked at it and asked, "Is that a park?" It struck me as funny because to my eyes it was just a small area of grass and trees which are plentiful on hundreds of corners around here, but to her it looked like a park. I told her, "No, it's just a corner."

The photo below is the area that she thought looked like a park. It's not a very good photo (google maps) and it was definitely greener the day Holly saw it. The pavement you can see on the other side of the trees is a road leading back to a residential neighborhood.

Seeing it through a desert-dweller's eyes, I could definitely see why she might've thought it was a park. It is a fond memory I have of Holly's visit. -- Chris

Kirby, Kirby, Kirby

Kirby sent a note:

 While I was in ABQ, my desk was filled with pink "kirby" balloons. It took my team three days to fill the cubicle. =)

He sent a little video. That can't go here because of company policy, but his cubicle was filled with round pink (to look like Nintendo's Kirby character) balloons, in a corral made of tape, with tape over the top so they couldn't get out. Kirby ducked in and popped up, and was wearing a "Got Kirby?" t-shirt.

The shirt was a birthday gift from a friend in Albuquerque, and it was the perfect outfit to be wearing  back to work to receive that very cool "gift."

I don't know how he popped them all, but the sword from his birthday party might've helped.  (There's an abiding story that fixed blades over 5.5 inches are illegal in Texas unless accompanied by a fishing license, though...  Some wild west is taming down.)

Holly in the Tent

Because Keith might go to an SCA campout in a car that won't hold a big tent, he dug out a smaller tent we made years ago. We figured out how many years ago, we think: 26 years.



We left it up hoping for rain so we can see how badly it's misting in there. We think that's why we stopped using it. It hasn't been used for six or eight years or more.

Holly hadn't been in it for a long, long time. I took the first two photos, but after those it's Holly's photography.



Nobody had *ever* taken a computer into it, that's for sure. There has been food, and now there was food again:



That bench was made by Wendy (a copy of a bench I bought at a Catholic charity shop in Española in the 1970's), and has been in that tent before. Just today I put up some photos of a recent woodworking project of Wendy's: Maud's Toy Horse

Here's kind of a timelapse of Holly's disappearing lunch:

Music, flowers and an arrow

Irene Adams, my sister, singing a song she wrote that made Holly cry a little. (Me too, nearly.)



Ashlee made her first arrow. The photos are fuzzy, but still I'll remember seeing it. Very nice fletching.



Holly arranged and distributed flowers this week:



Keith and I went to a concert with Holly and Will. They were seeing OnQ for the second time.





Holly and I went to a funeral where they played video game music and Beatles, but I didn't take a photo. It was standing-room only, even though they opened a side room. Kieran Archuleta, 16. I've known his mom for 30 years.

Kirby's birthday, part 2

I just finally finished uploading the photos. There were movies and meals and people between then and now. And clean-up. :-)

The cake said "Kirby is the Bomb" because we had candles that were shaped like bombs and dynamite. Just so happens the Tynkers (three of them were here) had a prop cartoonish bomb in the car, and put it out as a decoration, but I don't think I have a photo of it.



It was a very nice (and huge) group (57 people, Kirby listed the next day) and clean-up was pretty easy considering all that went on. As Bo described it on Facebook, "Swords and friends and shots and naked people, haha." The nakidity was a race between Brett M. and Josh A. from the back gate to a nearby (closed) business and back. Brett warned me, so I didn't go down to watch. It wasn't a main party activity, and it had a history, and there are no photos. Good.





Ben in Action:



Will and Ryan at rest: