Sunday, July 05, 2009

Silver City and Truth or Consequences

Friday night started off wonderful and ended spooky and the morning was brighter and better.

We delivered the napkins we had printed as a surprise for the Ben and Maria Elena. I got a tour of the building which was altogether wonderful, and even better for Holly who had helped clean up the yard, and had seen it pre-painting and repairs.

The open/closed sign was fantastic. I think we only photographed one side, but the other matches; you'll figure it out.Never mind that; it's on Holly's computer, elsewhere.



Then Holly and I walked a few blocks to a restaurant and were seated next to a great aquarium with big exotic fish and a little spikey-headed orange thing that might have been a squid with ferny parts on its head.

Holly had lasagna and I had grilled chicken, and we had a nice time not being in a moving vehicle.


It was raining. We had the umbrellas we got in England in July 2000.

We walked back up to the gallery, arriving at 6:25 for a reception that was to have started at 6:00. The rain was down to a sprinkle. The place was packed, every room and the porch. Holly and I overheard someone who had walked out onto the sidewalk and was calling her friend and saying "You've got to come to this gallery opening..." I would've taken more photos, but I felt guilty about photographing people who hadn't agreed to be photographed, so apologies to those who wish I hadn't and I wish I'd gotten everybody. Mixed feelings.

Of course, as usual, Holly took the really good photos, but she left again Saturday morning and is still not home from Ruidoso yet.



It was cool.

We might have stayed over, but Holly wanted to go to Ruidoso and Carizozo with a friend of hers the next day, so we started home. It started to rain so hard we couldn't see the road. We were on a two lane highway, and when we'd meet a truck we were drenched and momentarily even more blinded, and we slipped in invisible puddles and fishtailed a few times. Once it seemed we had a blowout. We got out in the rain but the tires were fine. Maybe we had run over part of someone else's tire.

It was so dark and wet that we missed a turn and didn't know it for a while. We ended up ten miles south or so, on (what I see on the map is) 185, also marked as E. Hall St. and North Valley Dr. There were arroyos running across the road. We finally got where the road seemed to be ending (though the map says it doesn't), and there was a border patrol station. We weren't at the border; we weren't even to I-10, but we were at mile marker 24 or 26 (I forget what the solitary young guard said it was) but he said if we went back north to mile marker 31 there was a right turn to Rincon (a teeny town) which would lead us to I-25.

At 31 there was not a road. Holly K-turned to go back and look. REALLY dark. We were squinting through sheets of sky water to look for a road. Nothing. A farm with corrals.

So we called my friend Jeff, in Albuquerque, who looked on a weather map and a road map and helped us get to the freeway. I didn't call my friend Ben for a couple of reasons. He might have wanted to come and save us in person. And also they had just had a really great gallery opening, and they've only been married a couple of years, so I figured they might likely be home having celebratory hot-monkey conjugal relations.

We ended up staying in an antique motel in Truth or Consequences. There were less-antique motels at the far north exit, but we didn't know that until the next morning. Our choice was two rooms with a bathroom between them, or one bedroom with one bed. I was afraid to be separated from Holly in what Marty has referred to in the past as "an Alfred Hitchcock motel," so we shared a bed.

There was a piece of art (a print of a painting, I guess). I believe I understood its message.

It said this to me: "Just be glad there's a bed, and a door you can lock, and running water. You don't have to gather firewood or worry about wolves, bears, snakes, hostile Indians or horny French trappers. There's a flush toilet. So don't even complain." (Click it for more detail and then click again for real close-ups of the work I was not having to do even though we had just left the relatively wild west town of Silver City, New Mexico.)

Here's what we didn't complain about, then:


It was after midnight and we slept.

I woke up at 5:30 or so, we took the key to the mailbox at the front door as requested, and saw this interesting internet sign:


I don't know whether that meant only in the lobby or everywhere. It was down at ground level, unlit, visible through the glass wall of the lobby.

It wasn't on the big sign, which was last really updated when color TV was new:


But when we got on the road there was a great view. Better in person a few seconds before when the sunrise was gold on facets of the mountains in the distance. This one's clickable too. Click twice if you want to. The signs say "Gusty Winds May Exist." I can drive in the morning, but not at night, not for many hours. I get sleepy. But I did drive us home.

Friday, July 03, 2009

Flowers and Silver City

Not together.
Holly and I are leaving for Silver City to go to a gallery opening: ¡ánima!

And here are morning glories growing on sunflowers, and potato blossoms, from my side yard this week:











Sunday, June 28, 2009

Two New Cats

These cats have been here a month, but they were nervous and unhappy at first, so they lived in the library and the other pets wondered what was up.

Today for the first time I carried Mina, the Siamese-looking-one (she's a Birman) down the stairs from the library into the yard. The other one, Nuee (re-tagged "New Age" and then "Sketchy" by Holly), has been going outside for a couple of weeks, but Mina ("Mina Felina") has only been as far as the main upstairs, to sleep under Holly's bed a few rooms away, a few times. Here they are this morning, outside.



These two had their first intro to human houses with Kim's sister Nova, who is moving to Hawaii to study psychology, and can't take them with her.

I told Broc and Gail the other day that since my kids were getting grown, I was gearing up for my Crazy Cat Lady phase. But more pressing than that is that I've been the cats' protector and buddy, and I'm going to be in the U.K. for three weeks, so I'm creating a new, neutral cat food station in hopes of keeping the cats from being so territorial about their two feeding spots, and am heading off any clashes I see or hear starting and talking reason and peace (as well as I can, not speaking "cat"), so that when I'm gone Keith and Holly and Marty can continue to feed them without so much work as knowing who likes what and where. I'll let those other dishes go empty more often, and wean them down to the new place by the back door and keep that one happily full. I'm also not using any of their familiar dishes there.

If any cat behavioralists (any experienced cat owners) have other ideas for me, I'm willing to read short notes but not books beause I only have a couple of weeks before I journey afar without cats.

Saturday, June 27, 2009

Kirby and Marty and friends in Austin

Tuesday, June 23, 2009

Broc Higgins on video

There's part of a longer interview with Broc here:
http://www.kickstarter.com/projects/968679247/unschooling-the-movie/posts/385
Lee also interviewed Brenna McBroom here yesterday.

It would have been nice if they could have had their beautiful home as a backdrop rather than my own cluttered house, but use your imagination. All their rooms are beautiful.

We shared Father's Day dinner in a window corner of Fuddrucker's, and though I double checked to make sure I had a camera when we left, I forgot to take a photo of Keith and Broc sitting together, which they did without even a photographer's suggestion. Bummer. Sorry.

UPDATE:
Brenna McBroom (short bit of her longer talk)
and from the other day, me, on saying yes

Monday, June 22, 2009

New, out the back gate

Earlier today:



After years of vacant lot, they built a Popeye's Chicken behind us, but it didn't even last a year, I don't think. It closed a few months ago. There've been construction guys there for a week or so, and today The News:



"Fastino's. Never heard of it. Looking...

Holly had said "I hope it's drive through Italian!" I said it would probably be Mexican, but Holly's right. It's a Pizza Hut subsidiary. COOL!

I don't know where this one is, but as I can find very little about it, I've lifted this from a business article:
The new Fastino's menu includes Italian specialty pastas, such as fettuccine alfredo, $2.99; cheese tortellini, $3.49; pasta primavera, $3.49; and lasagna, $3.79. They are served with a free garlic bread stick. Spaghetti, with a choice of four sources, is available in servings for one to four people and starts at $2.59.

And choice of four pizzas -- pepperoni, beef and pepperoni, deluxe and plain -- is offered by the slice, starting at 70 cents, or $4.59 for single and $7.99 for two pies. The menu also includes a 99-cent side salad and two desserts -- Italian ices, 99 cents, and "cheesecakes on a stick,"$1.29.

Because it says "pies" I'm guessing it was written by someone in New Jersey or New York. :-)

Well anyway... it should smell better than a chicken-frying place. So those who come to visit me can now walk over to very inexpensive and very fast pasta or pizza!

Sunday, June 21, 2009

A Hippie Wedding

Holly and I went to Steve and Beau's wedding yesterday, a nearly two-hour drive into what seemed the middle of nowhere, but I do know vaguely where we were, in the southern Manzano Mountains. We were calling it a hippie wedding, but the groom referred to it as "a Pagan, Native-American, Buddhist, Jewish ceremony conducted by a heretic Catholic priest."

Keith had been out there all of Saturday a week ago, half of Friday, and is still up there to break down all the tents and bring back the tables and chairs and tents that were ours.

Keith was brushing his hair to tie it back, and Holly and I had just arrived.

Here's the place where the ceremony was.



Trying to get that panoramic shot, I accidentally made a little video, and would've thrown it away but you can see the ribbons fluttering, and hear some wind and birds. The ribbons were tied on those poles with blessings, at the bridal shower. Some have words, and bells.

The bride was my bride's maid when I married Keith 25 years ago. Beau Tappan. We've sung together for many years, and she and Keith still sing together regularly, with a group. I'm their music researcher and librarian, but I'm not singing this season.

Steve and Beau have lived together for 35 years already. Holly said an interesting thing. It was jolting at first, but when I tried to see it from her point of view, I could. She said she thought it was nice, the reason they were getting married. She said most people get married for life, to make a life together, and Steve and Beau were getting married about death.

At first it sounds awful, but I see her point. They don't need to hope and plan for life together. They've already had that, and are continuing to do so. They want to have the benefits of marriage in the case of illness and those other late-life things.

Beau would've been happy to have had a justice-of-the-peace wedding, in a judge's office. Steve wanted a party, and I'm glad he did. I saw lots of old friends and got to see their cabin on ten acres in the aforementioned middle of nowhere. The food was great! It wasn't an alcohol party; no toasts while I was there. Probably there were later, but Holly and I came home after we ate, just after the cake cutting, because Holly was watering the yard and garden of the newlyweds while they stayed out to party another day.

I was afraid to do too many videos and run down my battery. Here's one from the outside of the party tents, near the kitchen corner. The yellow tent was for smokers. You can hear Holly's voice. She's inside the tent with Keith and some other people, but the shade keeps them from showing much. She asked me if that tent would really keep the smoke in, but the purpose of the tent was to prevent fire. The ground was covered in dry pine needles and there was a fire in the area last year. So IF a cigarette starts a fire, it will be right there, near water, near people. Easy.



Holly had a zoom and so her photos will be better than mine, and she's a better photographer, but here are some images I happened to have, in the meantime.

This is a 90 degree view made flat. There were tents all the way around a central square, for the reception.